I am a 25 year old female looking for some assistance. I am so depressed and hurt. I thought my life was going good until some guy entered it and pretended to love me. He really just wanted to use me and used my credit card and now i am 8,000.00 in debt. He is no where to be found. Ive spoken to the credit card company and they say i am responsible for that money. My bill is 180.00 a month. I feel like i can never finish paying this off as i have my car payment, rent and bills. and the interest on the card is overwhelming. I feel like i can never get my life back on track until i pay this off. I work as a waitress but it is not enough to survive. I have no one to help me, and i am so depressed and feel so stupid. I wanna go back to school i feel like it will never happen because i can not pay for it. I rent a room from some ladys house. I wanna rent my own apartment but not with this credit i have now. I feel like i have lost everything in life just for loving this one person and he could care less. I have never heard of this happening to any one before and i am wondering how i could be so stupid. It is so embarassing.  I have always been such a nice young lady. I have always been respectful and willing to help others. It feels like when i am in need there is nobody there for me. If someone could help me out that i would be so grateful. Even if some one could let me borrow money just so i wouldnt have to pay for the credit card interest, life would be heavenly. And i would pay you back. Please some one help me get my life on track. Please message me on here and i can get back to you. Thank You.